Nowadays, people have access to more tools for connecting and communicating than ever before. However, that does not make it any easier to break the ice with a friend you haven’t spoken to in years—or even decades.
It’s quite common to feel nervous or even stressed out at the thought of getting in touch with an old friend, but reaching out to someone who you haven't spoken to in a long time gives you the opportunity to rekindle a friendship you’ve been missing.
How to reach out
There's no magic formula that will guarantee your success when you attempt to make contact with an old friend, but there are several steps you can take to make the process as easy as possible.
- Set your anxiety aside: If you feel nervous about contacting an old friend, you’re not alone. Even best friends can drift apart with time. The important thing is that you want to reconnect. Your friend might be just as anxious as you are about reaching out to you, so don’t let nerves get the better of you.
- Send a brief message: There’s no need to write a novel chronicling everything that has happened since you last spoke with your friend. Keep your message short, sweet and to the point. Start off with something like, “I know it’s been a while since we spoke, but I’d love to catch up." You might include a simple question to get a conversation started.
- Ease into an in-person meeting: It’s exciting to finally get in touch with an old friend, but you shouldn't jump straight into an in-person meeting. Continue corresponding online, via text or over the phone until you both feel comfortable enough to get together.
- Consider the circumstances: It’s important to think about what your friend has experienced since you last spoke and how they might feel about you reaching out. If you and your friend had a falling out that caused you to lose touch, an apology or reconciliation could be in order. If you don’t address pain or hurt from the past, your friend may be skeptical of your motives.
- Keep your expectations in check: Even with all your best efforts and intentions, you might never hear back from your old friend. The reality is that not everybody is open to rekindling friendships with those they have lost touch with. Don’t get discouraged by a missed connection and try to understand why your friend might be uninterested in reconnecting.
Communicating with old friends isn’t always easy, but it can be well worth the effort. Putting yourself out there can lead to the revival of meaningful friendships you have lost over the years.
A great education is critically important for our children, community and society as a whole. Chippewa Falls students, parents and alumni are well aware of the impact a strong K-12 education can have in preparing young people for life beyond the classroom.
During this season of giving, you can make tax-deductible charitable contributions to support Chippewa Falls, just like you would any other organization or cause important to you. Our donors allow us to expand our programs and services, providing our students with the best educational experiences possible from pre-K through high school.
If you’re thinking about making a contribution to support Chippewa Falls schools, now is the the perfect time of the year to do so. Not only does charitable giving in December give you the opportunity to spread some holiday cheer, but it also allows you to enjoy some benefits come tax time in April.
Getting involved with holiday giving
Contributions to the Chippewa Falls Area Unified School District Foundation are tax deductible. You can find out more about how to give a one-time gift by contacting Sharon Barkley at email@example.com. If you’re interested in establishing a scholarship fund, you can fill out and send in a donor data sheet.
No matter how big or small your contribution, you can rest assured knowing that it's going toward quality educational opportunities for the children attending Chippewa Falls schools. Even if you cannot make a financial contribution, we welcome those who want to get involved with our schools to volunteer at our events and after-school programs.
You can find out more about how to get involved and contribute to Chippewa Falls schools and students by contacting us today.
As the leaves fall off the trees, the temperatures drop and we start to see the first flakes of snow hit Chippewa Falls, our students are getting ready for a variety of great events in the coming weeks. We would like to invite everyone in our school community, including our alumni, supporters and community members, to check out and attend these events this year.
Here's a rundown of what's in store from now until the holiday break:
Theater Performance: "No Mother to Guide Her"
Chippewa Falls High School Auditorium
Students perform "No Mother to Guide Her," a melodrama in Victorian-era style, with lots of funny modern twists. Come boo the villain and cheer the hero as the whole cast plays out a ridiculous tale of love, greed and deception. Live piano accompanies the action. Admission is $3 for students and $5 for adults; tickets are available at the door. Performances start at 7 p.m. Friday and Saturday and 2 p.m. on Sunday in the Chippewa Falls High School Auditorium. Contact director Molly Barnes at Chi Hi with questions. 715-726-2406 x 1217
Halmstad Culver’s Night
Culver’s in Hallie
Teachers and parents serve Culver’s customers to benefit the Halmstead PTO.
Jazz Band Winter Concert
November 30 at 7 p.m.
Chippewa Falls High School Auditorium
November 30 at 6:30 p.m.
Chippewa Falls Middle School
Students of Chippewa Falls Middle School's after-school program perform.
Jim Falls Deck the Halls
December 6 at 6 p.m.
Jim Falls Elementary School
Jim Falls hosts a PTO-sponsored holiday event.
You can check out a full list of our upcoming events here. If you want to stay up-to-date on everything that’s going on with the Chippewa Falls Area Unified School District, follow us on Facebook and Twitter, where you can check out photos, news and more events.
Homecoming is a special tradition here in Chippewa Falls. This year's festivities took place the week of September 24-29, and it was yet again a memorable event for our students, parents, community and our wonderful alumni.
Unfortunately, the Mighty Cardinals fell to a tough River Falls team on Friday night by a score of 34-21. Still, it was wonderful to see so many of our alumni out and about at the game and the other great events throughout the week. This included the homecoming parade, where students' floats were on full display.
We are also proud of the student council members at Chippewa Falls High School, who planned a number of fun activities throughout the week that made Homecoming 2018 another milestone event.
Immediately following the game, students, staff, community members and alumni headed out to the annual bonfire and pig roast. As always, it was a great time for all, and it reminded us once again of what makes Chippewa Falls such a special community.
For all the alumni who took part in this year's homecoming events, it was great to see you. Thank you for being such an important part of the great traditions we have here in the Chippewa Falls Area Unified School District. Go Mighty Cardinals!
There's nothing quite like homecoming in Chippewa Falls. The week—and all the activities, events and celebrations that take place—has become a true point of pride in our community.
If you attended Chi-Hi, you may recall taking part in homecoming festivities yourself. Like always, the Student Council is planning some fun, creative events for the entirety of Spirit Week. This year, the festivities run September 24-29.
Throughout the week, students will take part in a wide range of activities to show their school spirit. While the Student Council is at work picking a theme and planning activities, a few events will look very familiar to our alumni and community members.
As always, Friday is Spirit Day. The afternoon will feature a pep rally to cheer on the Mighty Cardinals football team before the big game.
Then, on Friday at 7 p.m., the Chi-Hi Mighty Cardinals football team will take on the River Falls Wildcats at Dorais Field. Immediately following the game, there will be the annual bonfire and pig roast that has become such an important part of homecoming over the years. That event starts at 9 p.m.
The homecoming dance is Saturday night, with students taking part in one of the most memorable events of their high school years.
Homecoming is such a terrific event for the entire Chippewa Falls community, including our students, families, community members and, perhaps most of all, our wonderful alumni. We hope you can come out to the football game and enjoy the pig roast and bonfire afterward.
Go Mighty Cardinals!
Although you may be a few or many years removed from your days at Chippewa Falls High School, there’s a part of you that will always be a Mighty Cardinal. Whether you were a member of the marching band, part of the art club and/or on the football team, your time in high school shaped who you are today. And, there’s a good chance it wouldn’t have been possible without the help of the alumni who came before you.
Today, you’re in a position to help current students have the same experiences you did in your formative years. There are numerous ways you can support your alma mater and those who are now working their way toward the next stage in their lives.
Volunteer your time
The very best thing you can give to your old high school is your time. There are always jobs to be done that rely heavily on the generosity of volunteers—from staffing school events to organizing local functions. Take a look at some of the best ways you can put your time to use:
- Mentor: Many students are looking for someone to help them beyond the classroom. They want to learn applicable skills and moral reasoning, and develop a bond with someone they can admire. As an alumnus, you could be this person. All it takes is a little one-on-one time with a student.
- Volunteer: We're always looking for dedicated volunteers. Whether it’s manning the concessions stand at a football game or working as a chaperone for the band field trip, your contributions will be highly appreciated.
- Coach: Youth sports teams often have a need for volunteer coaches, especially at the elementary or middle school level. Being a coach means being a leader and lending your time means keeping players engaged and out of trouble after school.
Serve as a school ambassador
One of the simplest things you can do to give back to your alma mater is to support it as part of your everyday life. Share school news on your social media accounts, wear school apparel on the weekends or even attend a home game for a school sport. Your support will go a long way in helping Chi-Hi continue to serve an important role in our community.
Donate to support programs and services
Of course, monetary donations are always welcome. School budgets often come up short of what’s needed to give students the best educational experiences possible. Whether it’s donating to the theater program, chipping in a few bucks at a club fundraiser or making a private donation to the CFAUSD Foundation, every dollar generously donated by alumni improves the experience of our current students.
No matter how you choose to support Chippewa Falls schools, your efforts will have a meaningful impact on the lives of our students, staff and administration. We hope you consider the many ways you can give back.
It may be the middle of summer, but we still have some big news to share in the Chippewa Falls Area Unified School District! As we edge closer to the 2018-19 school year, we would like to share some recent news and highlights with you.
Principal Becky Davis Retires from Chi-Hi
After 20 years in the district, Chippewa Falls High School Principal Becky Davis announced her retirement at the end of the school year.
Ms. Davis, who became principal of Chi-Hi in 2012, was the assistant principal for the 14 years before that. Earlier in her career, she taught in the Eau Claire Area School District and was an assistant principal in Menomonie.
A Chippewa Falls native herself, Ms. Davis graduated from Chi-Hi in 1973 and went on to receive a bachelor's degree from UW-Eau Claire. She then got a master's degree in educational leadership from Winona State University.
We would like to thank Ms. Davis for her hard work and dedication to the students and families of Chippewa Falls over the years. We wish you a happy retirement!
Chippewa Falls Alum Qualifies for Boston Marathon—Pushing His 11-Year-Old Son
Chi-Hi alumnus Jordan Bergeman has qualified for the Boston Marathon after finishing 12th in the recent Eau Claire Marathon in May. As always, he will compete while pushing his 11-year-old son, Jeffrey, in a custom racing stroller.
The father-son duo has been hard at work training over the past two years. Jeffrey, who suffered irreversible brain damage after suffering cardiac arrest as a toddler, has been with his dad throughout. Jordan says his son inspires him to keep pushing himself.
While qualifying for the Boston Marathon does not necessarily mean Jordan and Jeffrey will actually be admitted to the race, they remain hopeful.
“This is about Jeffrey," Jordan told the Leader-Telegram in a recent article. “Dad is just along for the ride.”
Girls' Softball Makes a Great Showing Again This Year
The Chippewa Falls girls' softball team made it to the state tournament again this year, falling just short in a quarterfinal game against Burlington. This year marked the 12th trip to state for the Mighty Cardinals, who won a state championship in 2012. The team was led by first-year coach Kate Fjelstad.
Congratulations to the Mighty Cardinals for another great season!
Chi-Hi Catcher Named Big River Conference Player of the Year
Chippewa Falls Catcher Dave Weiland was named the Big River Conference Player of the Year for the 2018 spring baseball season. Also earning All-Conference honors were Outfielders Tristan Hable and Lucas Steinmetz and Pitcher Nelson Crumbaker. We're proud of our Mighty Cardinals!
During the summer months, some class reunion committees are planning events to take place in the next few weeks or months. This can be an exciting time, while also creating a little hesitation for many.
High school can be a great time in our lives, but also a challenging one. Thus, it's common for some people to want to leave it all in the past.
In reality, class reunions are great opportunities to reconnect with old friends, classmates and even teachers. You can catch up on what everyone has been doing over the past few years or decades. All told, there are far more reasons to attend your class reunion than to skip it.
Don't let anxiety keep you away
One of the most common reasons alumni cite for not attending their class reunions is anxiety. They may get wrapped up in the details of what they think a reunion is all about — instead of what it actually is. These are social events. You are there to see people with whom you haven’t been able to keep in touch. It's not about comparing salaries, cars, house sizes or job titles.
You can quell your anxiety by remembering the good things about a class reunion. You’ll get to see old friends, share new laughs, expand your personal and professional networks and have a good time while you’re there.
A great time to reconnect
A class reunion is also an open door to future possibilities. You might end up sharing coffee a week later with a friend you haven't seen in years. Or, you could find yourself with a job prospect after networking with someone in the same field as yours. A reunion allows for ongoing interactions — even if it’s just friending someone on Facebook or adding a classmate to your LinkedIn network.
One of the very best things about attending your reunion is listening to all the great stories. There will be people there you knew years ago and who have had their own life experiences. They may be completely different or exactly the same as you remembered.
For once, when someone says, “Hey, what’s new?” you’ll have endless stories to share with them! And, you’re bound to hear some pretty neat things in return.
If you’ve been curious about what happened to that classmate from social studies or wonder what careers other graduates have gone into, we encourage you to attend your next class reunion. When that invitation comes in the mail or hits your inbox, take a moment to reflect on all of the positive reasons to RSVP “yes.”
For many of us, the world doesn't change all that much when we're in school. After graduation, however, we tend to go our separate ways, eventually losing track of many of our old friends and classmates. Some of us go to college or trade school, while others enter the armed forces or the workforce. It’s the start of adult life.
Just because high school is the end of your time as a K-12 student doesn’t mean it's something you have to leave behind forever. More than any yearbook, class ring or Facebook group, staying in touch and involved with your alma mater is a great way to keep close ties and make a difference for your former school's current students.Read more
Watch thank you message from Supt. Heidi Eliopoulos
On Tuesday, April 3, voters in the Chippewa Falls community approved a referendum that will enable the district to fund much-needed facilities upgrades and address deferred maintenance.
The vote came after a more than year-long process to engage the community in a conversation about the district's facilities needs, including a survey in late 2017. In that survey, respondents said that they would likely support a future referendum and that they placed updates to Stillson Elementary School as the top priority.
The Chippewa Falls Area Unified School District will use the funds generated through the referendum to move forward on its Master Facilities Plan, developed in 2014. The plan calls for the following:
- Analyzing building enrollment capacity in light of a demographic study to be conducted by the district
- Projecting major capital improvement needs in each building
- Assessing aggregate as well as disaggregated maintenance costs for the District
- Determining the useful life of each district building
- Developing a comprehensive 25 year facility repair and/or replacement timeline
Now, the Board of Education will determine next steps, working with the district's architect, ATS&R. Among the priorities will be plans for a new Stillson Elementary and the purchase of land in Lafayette for a potential new school site. There will also be an addition, repairs and improvements at the middle school, along with a STEAM lab addition, repairs and betterment at the high school.
We would like to thank everyone—including our community members, alumni, staff and families—for your input, guidance and support as we've worked together to find solutions to the facilities needs of our Chippewa Falls schools. It has served as yet another example of what makes our community such a special place.